If we listen to the success gurus, it’s easy to get the impression that we need to always be positive and focus only on what is the up side of most everything and everyone. Maybe that works for them, but I have bad days, get upset with situations and people now and then and sure don’t always focus on the up side of things. There are definitely people and events that don’t please me and times when it is best to just stay clear of me. But does that mean that success is out of the question? Do we have to always put that positive foot in front of us? I think not. Let’s listen and see how to get angry or upset with style and thoughtfulness.